3 Things to Tell Your Kids When You're Getting Divorced | The Stir: "“Daddy is not a bad person/jerk/asshat.” Ok, so you don’t have to state this one specifically, but do refrain from name-calling. Your kids are half you and half your ex."
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This is sort of simplistic, but it helps me see why kids would be so injured in divorce. Half of myself can't live with the other half.